Six months, so that places it around September then. okay, as long as I have a bit of a clue what's going on I can 'mostly' deal with it.
it was not knowing that is awful and of course they don't write to you and tell you.
Thanks everyone and extra thanks to Monic as usual. (I would lost without her help and I'm sure I wouldn't have made it to 2020 without her superb help over the years!) >hugs<